My girlfriend doesn’t like when I go down on her. Is that common or am I just bad at it?

Tammy Nelson, Ph.D., psychotherapist and sex therapist: Women can be shy about getting oral sex. They may be nervous about the smell or taste of their bodies, so tell her you love both, and going down on her excites you.

They may also worry they’re taking too long, so assure her there’s no hurry—you’ll stay down there as long as it takes.

Finally, it can be hard for women to express their sexual needs, so encourage her to guide you by asking her to either moan when she likes it or show you with her own hand.

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